INSPIRATIONAL WORDS OF WISDOM

MUST GOD CHOOSE FOR ME? God initiated marriage and yearning it to be worked by standards of His statement; notwithstanding He doesn't constrain His will on humanity. He gives us disclosures of His will and we are the one to settle on the decision of obeying Him or not. God must not decide for you but rather it is fitting to permit Him to decide for you since He is the designer, expert developer and expert organizer of the marriage foundation with a right and legitimate manual for safe direction... There is nothing done by God without a reason. God has his objectives for setting up marriage and a portion of the reasons are: Partnership, Purity, Provision, Procreation, Protection, Pleasure and Preservation of mankind. He made the individual you need to wed; he knows the heart of both of you. He knows the fate of both of you; only he sees what you don't see and can tell whether the marriage will work or not. In addition, regardless of the possibility that you abandon him an...

Christian ladies who go their way in marriage, seeing it as God ’ s permissive will are mistaken. What most people call permissive will of God is outright disobedience to God ’ s will? The will of God is not “ static ” but “ Dynamic ” by being static I mean the will of God is not fixed, but rather it is dynamic (changes). For instance, if God reveals to Christian brother that he should get married to a particular Christian lady, but maybe, because of some physical challenges in the lady, or some reasons best known to the man he then refuses the perfect will of God and decides to go for God ’ s permissive will like Balaam in 22:12-22.  If this happens that does not mean that the Christian lady cannot get married to another Christian brother that will be ready to obey the will of God; remember, behind every Saul, there is always a David. It is either we obey God or obey SELF. There is no middle line in God ’ s kingdom. God ’ s will is “ Good, acceptable and perfect ...

"It is better to laugh about your problems than to cry about them." "The value of achievement lies in the achieving." Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius - and a lot of courage - to move in the opposite direction.  In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.  If A is a success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut.  Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds.  Outer changes always begin with an inner change of attitude.  The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources.  Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one. 

I've met a lot of hard-boiled eggs in my life, but you - you're 20 minutes. "An old dog can learn new tricks. If your enthusiasm has lost its vitality, do everything possible to revive it." "The only time I don't have any problems in this world is when I am already six feet below the ground."  "When you pray be careful of how you respond to what you get. I read somewhere that if you pray for rain. . . don't complain about the mud!"  "Make allowances for your friends' imperfections as readily as you do for your own." "Make allowances for your friends' imperfections as readily as you do for your own." "To be successful, regardless of the field, one needs to be a participant in the field of battle, rather than a spectator." "Goal setting is similar to travelling from point A to point B within a city. If you clearly understand what the goal is, you will definitely reach the destination b...

A willful fault has no excuse, and deserves no pardon.  Three things give us hardy strength: sleeping on hairy mattresses, breathing cold air, and eating dry food.  Without  perseverance  talent is a barren bed.  The best candle is understanding.  Be honorable yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people.  Adversity  comes with instruction in his hand.  Your hand is never the worse for doing its own work.  If every man would sweep his own door-step the city would soon be clean.  Adversity and loss make a man wise.  Conscience is the nest where all good is hatched.  A watched clock never tells the  time .  The advice of the aged will not mislead you.  A warm January; a cold May.

Never let your feet run faster than your shoes.  Be  happy  while you're living, For you're a long time dead.  What may be done at any  time  will be done at no time.  Learn young, learn fair; learn old, learn more.  Get what you can and keep what you have; that's the way to get rich.  Willful waste makes woeful want.  When the heart is full the tongue will speak.  Be slow in choosing a  friend  but slower in changing him.  Fools look to tomorrow. Wise men use tonight.  Confessed faults are half mended.  They that will not be counselled cannot be helped.  They that sow the wind, shall reap the whirlwind.  Luck  never gives; it only lends.  Better be ill spoken of by one before all than by all before one.  Take care of your pennies and your dollars will take care of themselves.

Ever since the beginning The girl’s family member disagree her relationship with the boy. Saying that because of family background, if she insist of being together with the boy, she’ll suffer for her whole lifetime. Because of the pressure applied by family members, she frequently quarrel with him. The girl does love the boy, she used to ask him, “How much do you love me?” Because the boy is not good with words, he used to make her angry. With additional comment from her parents, her mood get even worse. The boy, has become her “anger releasing target”. And the boy, just silently allowed her to continuously release her anger on him. Later, the boy graduated from University. He plan to further study overseas but before he left. He proposed to the girl… ” I, don’t know how to say nice words but I do know that, I love you. If you agree, I am willing to take care of you, the whole life. About your family members, I will work hard to convince them and agree on us.” “Marry me, will y...